05-11-2011

Reality is what we take to be true.

What we take to be true is what we believe.

What we believe is based upon our percepts.

What we perceive depends on what we look for.

What we look for. depends on what we perceive 

What we perceive  determines what we believe.

What we believe determines what we take to be true.

What we take to be true is our reality.

Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is when confidence dies inside us while we are alive.

Always be the reason of someone's happiness, never be a part of it. 

But be a part of someone's sadness , never be the reason of it.

Life laughs at you when you are unhappy.
Life smiles at you when you are happy.
But
Salutes you when you make others happy.

Nothing can be changed by changing the face.

Everything can be changed by facing the change.

04-11-2011

Proverbs regarding Sons & Daughters :

1) My son is my son till he hath got him a wife but my daughter is daughter all the days of her life.

2) Daughters are easy to rear, but difficult to marry - German Proverb

3) When a good offer comes for a daughter, don't wait till her father returns from the market - Spanish Adage

4) Daughters and Dead Fish are no keeping wares - German Proverb.

5) Marry your son when you wil , your daughter when you can.

6) Daughters are certain cares but uncertain comforts.

7) Lasses are cumbersome , Lads are lumbersome

8) As tall as your knee, they are pretty to see.
    As tall as your head, they wish you were dead.

03-11-2011

Luck decides whom you meet in life.

Heart decides whom you want in life 

but 

it is destiny that decides who gets to stay in your life.

Rs. 500 look so big when we go to temple and so small when we go to a hotel ..
How we see things outside us depends how things are inside us.

A mud pot having milk wil be ranked higher than a golden pot having poison.

It is not our outer glamour but our inner virtues that make us valuable.

Don't be close to someone who makes you happy.
But be close to someone who can't be happy without you.

ડાહ્યા માણસોને પાંચ વસ્તુનો બાધ :
 ૧) મુર્ખાઓ સામે વાત ન માંડવી
૨) દાંત સામે રોષ ન રાખવો
૩) ઢોર ભડકે ત્યારે ડબ્બો ન વગાડાય
૪) ગાંડાને ગલગલિયા ન કરાય.
૫) ઝાડા થાય ત્યારે શંખ ન વગાડાય 

02-11-2011

ધન ઓછું, તન મધ્યમ અને મન મોટું એ માણસ સુખી

સંયમનો અર્થ મરી મરીને જીવવું એ નથી
પણ
સ્વસ્થ પવનની જેમ વહેવું એ છે.

મોટા ભાગના લોકો બુધ્ધિ ધરાવે છે પણ શાણપણ નહી.

We do not listen to understand but we listen to reply
This creaes misunderstanding.

Most situations in life are issues of Mind over Matter.

If you do not Mind, it does not Matter.

25-10-2011

સુખ વિષે કેટલાક વિચારો :
૧) જો લોકોને ખરેખર સુખી કરવા હોય તો સૌથી પહેલી જરૂર છે ધર્મને દેશવટો દેવાની - કાર્લ માર્કસ
૨) પરમ સુખ જેવું કશું શક્ય જ નથી. સુખનો આધાર બીજા માણસ સાથેની સરખામણી પર જ રહેલો છે.-થોમસ શાડવેલ
૩) સુખી થવા માટે ઘણા દુ:ખો વેઠવા પડે છે.- મેરી મોન્ટેગ્યુ
૪) જે સુખ લાંબો વખત ટકે છે તે પછી સુખ નથી રહેતું- જી.સી. લિટેનબર્ગ
૫) સારું કે ખરાબ- દુનિયા જેને વિષે ઓછું બોલે તે માણસ ખરો સુખી- થોમસ જેફર્સન
૬) સુખી કોણ ? જે માણસ પોતાને સુખી માને તે. - સી.સી. કોલ્ટન

जिवनकी हर परिस्थितीमें हमारे पास हंमेशा दो रास्ते होते है |
१) भाग लो  (Run Away)
२) भाग लो (Participate)

Choice is yours


What is the difference between Dream & Aim ?
Dream requires sound sleep to see them whereas Aim requires sleepless efforts day & night to fulfill them

The most determinative thought :

'The race is not over because I have not won yet "

If life throws lemons at you don't make lemonade.

Ask for tequila & salt.

24-10-2011

Your respect is not in the words spoken to you in your presence but words spoken for you in your absence.

Wait patiently but work impatiently.


When you run so fast to get somewhere you miss the fun of getting there.

Life is not a race, so take it easy.

Hear the music before the song gets over.

A door knocks twice. 
Insider asks : "Who is there ?"
Ans : "It's me. Opportunity."
Insider : " You can not be opportunity  because opportunity never knocks twice."

A cup of hot hellos, 

A plate of crisp wishes,

A spoon of sweet smiles

&

A slice of great success

in the breakfast will make your day lovely.

23-10-2011

The only thing money gives you is the freedom of not worrying about money.- Jonhy Carson

So simple it is to live
So simple it is to love
So simple it is to smile
So simple it is to win
but the fact is it is too difficult to be simple.


We never get what we want.,

We never want what we ger,

We never have what we like,

We never like what we have,

Still  we live,

Still we love,

Still we hope.

That is life.

A journey of thousand miles begins with single step

Definition of wife : Someone who will stand by you through all the troubles which you would not have had if you had stayed SINGE.