30-10-2010

Every one tells me that I have changed but the truth is that I have just stopped living my life their way.

Good relation is a lovely track traveled by two with hand in hand to care, to share, to forgive and to say silently "I am always with you".

The inevitable truth of life is "Everyone is going to hurt you sooner or later. You have just to realise who is worth the pain "

Message from Sri Sri Ravishankar from Goa :
Having a wife is part of living.
But having a girlfriend along with wife is "Art of Living"

Giving up is the easiest thing in the world to do but holding everything together when everything seems to be falling apart is true strength.

28-10-2010

Definition of Holiday :
A holiday is a day when a man stops doing what his boss wants and starts doing what his wife wants.

The plus symbol is made with two minuses. So all negative things can be shaped as positives by our smart work. & positive thinking.

When you are sad & lonely or when you feel depressed, remember 3 things :
1. I am there
2.You have cash
3. We can party.
Enjoy.

Meaningful Lines :
Keep correcting your small mistakes because nobody slips down by hills but just by little stones.

Always have unique character like salt.
Its presence is not felt
but
its absence makes all things tasteless.

26-10-2010

Time always comes in its own format. It is our attitude & behaviour that makes it difficult or pleasant .

Don't read success story, read only failure story because in failure story you get new ideas to win. In success story you only get message.

Time is the most elastic element of the world because it increases the minutes when we are waiting and decreases the hours when we are enjoying.

Which are the two words which will open many doors in life ?

Push & Pull

A good plan of today is better than a great plan of tomorrow. Look backward with satisfaction & look forward with confidence.

25-10-2010

Opinions are like wrist watches. Every watch shows different time from others yet everyone believes that their time is correct.That is life.

The Master Key
Not all fingers are same in length but when they are bent all stand equal.Life becomes easy when we bend & adjust to all situations.

Non Smokers : I hate cigarette so I don't touch it.
Smokers : I too hate cigarette so I burn it.
Attitude matters.

Life is not about the people who act true in your presence.
It is about the people who remain true in your absence.

Nobody teaches volcano to erupt,
Tsunami to arise,
Hurricanes to sway around,
And nobody teaches how to choose a spouse.
Natural disasters just happen

22-10-2010

Gyan of the day :
A woman will always forgive & forget but she will never let you forget that she had forgiven & forgotten.

Living with
'2 get' & '2 give '
creates too many problems.
But living with simple attitude (Just double it)
'4 get ' & '4 give'
solves all the problems.

Why do Indian women want the same husband in the next life too ?
Any Guesses !!
Well,
Efforts taken to change him in this life do not go wasted , that is why.

एक युग था जब लोग अपने घरकी दिवारपे लिखते थे अतिथि देवो भव|
फिर लिखा शुभ लाभ |
फिर लिखा You are welcome.
और अब लिखते है कुत्तेसे सावधान|

अगर दुनियामें महेनतकी कदर होती तो गध्धा सबसे इज्जतदार होता|
Dedicated to all hard working and busy friends.

19-10-2010

When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them.
When you are happy and feel blessed, remember someone has prayed for you too.

Common sense is common but the use of common sense is uncommon

We will never reach our destination if we stop & throw stones at every dog that barks. Better we keep biscuits & go.
-Dhirubhai Ambani

The most mind blowing and heart touching thought of life :
लाश पानी पर तैरती क्युँ है ?
क्यों कि डूबनेके लिये झींदगी चाहिये |

You can not stop troubles from coming but you can not offer them chairs to sit on.

17-10-2010

જીન્દગી હસતા મુકી દયે છે. જીન્દગી રડતા મુકી દયે છે. નથી પૂર્ણવિરામ દુ:ખમાં. નથી પૂર્ણવિરામ સુખમાં. બસ જ્યાં મઝા આવે ત્યાં ઝિન્દગી અલ્પવિરામ મુકી દયે છે.

Some flowers grow best in sun,
others do well in shade.
Remember , God puts us where we grow the best.

Beware of EGO: It is a sword with two edges. The outer edge cuts your popularity. The inner edge cuts your Purity.

When God is in your boat, it does not mean you will not face any storm. It only means no storm can sink your boat.

કેટલીક વાતોની શરુઆત યાદ છે.
અધુરા અંતની મુલાકાતો યાદ છે.
દરિયામાં આવે છે ભરતી ઓટ પણ
કિનારાને તો ફક્ત રેતીમાં પડેલા પગલા જ યાદ છે.

14-10-2010

Compromising does not mean that you are wrong & someone is right. It only means that you value the relationship much more than your ego

Never expect anything from anyone.
Expectations hurt.
When you don't expect, every moment is surprise.
And surprise brings happiness.

My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.~Henry Ford

Friendship without self interest is one of the rare and beautiful things in life.~James Francis Byres

In a friend you find a second self.~Isabelle Norton

13-10-2010

True guidance is like a small lamp in a dark forest. It does not show everything at once, but gives enough light for the next step to be safe.

Whenever you make an important decision
Close your eyes
Listen to your heart
Use your head
and finally
do as your
Wife tells you.

When you truly care for someone, you don't find fault & mistakes. Instead you correct their mistake & accept their faults. That is the beauty of true relation.

Vision:
What is worse than having no sight is being able to see but having no vision.
-Helen Keller

It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us. ~Epicurus (341 - 270 BC) Greek philosopher

12-10-2010

Silence is the fence around Wisdom.
If our foot slips . we can always regain our balance.
But, if our Tongue slips , we can never recall our worlds.

Britisher : Why you Indians are in different colours ? Look we are all white .
Abdul Kalam : Horses are in different colours but donkeys are all same.

Worries and tension are like birds. We can not stop them from flying near us. But we can certainly stop them making nest on our head.

The reason why people talk behind your back is that you are ahead of them.

Power:
Success depends upon staying power. The reason for failure in most cases is lack of perseverance.
-J.R Miller

11-10-2010

Concern:
Be careful of your thoughts, they may become words at any moment.
-Lara Gassen


Determination:
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what
lies within us
-William Morrow


Hope:
As far we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light
in the darkness of mere being.
-Carl Jung


Insight:
The soul would have no rainbow, had the eyes no tears.
-John Vance Cheney


Peace:
First keep the peace within yourself, then you can also bring peace to others.
-Thomas a' Kempis

10-10-2010

Shakespeare Said:
Laughing faces do not mean that there is absence of sorrow.
But it means that they have the ability to deal with it.

Dead Truth :
Why do ladies spend so much time on improving their looks & not their mind ? because they feel that all men may be stupid but not blind.

Don't feel bad that people remember you only when they need you.
Feel privileged that you are like a candle. You come to mind when there is darkness in their life.

Missing someone when you are alone is not affection but thinking of someone even when you are busy is called real affection.

I don't worry about terrorism, I am married for 12 years

09-10-2010

Time makes us forget some person but there are some persons who make us forget the time. One such lovely person is reading the message and smiling now.

Smaller things upset more in life than bigger ones . You can be on top of a mountain but you can not be on top of a needle. That is life.

ગુજરાતીમા એક કહેવત છે :" હસ્યા તેના ઘર વસ્યા"
પણ એ કહેવત ઉપર એક સવાલ છે :"ઘર વસ્યા પછી કેટલા હસ્યા ?"

Which is the most dangerous alphabet ?
Ans : "W"
Q: Why ?
A: All worries start with "W"
for example :
Who ?
Why ?
What ?
When ?
Which ?
Whom ?
Where ?
War !
Wine !
Whiskey !
Woman !
and finally
"WIFE"

Living is very simple.
Loving is also simple.
Laughing is too simple.
Winning is also simple.
Then what is difficult ?
Being simple is difficult.

08-10-2010

Name of the relation does not matter. Only feelings in the relation matter.
Radha & Krishna were simply best friends but still the world calls them best couple.

Life & Time are two great teachers.
Life teaches us the use of Time.
&
Time teaches us the value of Life.

Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced daily.
Failure is nothing more than a few small errors daily.

Easy to get someone who will love you
Easy to get someone who will like you
Easy to get someone who will care for you
But rare to get someone who will understand you.

Talk with yourself at least once in a day.
Otherwise you may miss your best friend in this world.
-Shakespere

07-10-2010

A beautiful understanding about life :
Your problem is never really your problem.
Your reaction to the problem is really your problem.

Famous last words :
Gandhiji : Hey Ram !!
Ricky Ponting : Hey Laxman !!
(Laxman won single handedly 1st test against Australia after India were 8 wickets down for 124 needing to make 216 to win)

Who is a woman ?
A : Who can see a hair of a girl on her husband's coat from 20 meters away but can't see a pillar from 2 meters while parking a car.

Touching line just before death:
"Don't burn me immediately after my death,
My friends have a bad habit of coming late.

USA Power V/s INDIAN Power
USA
10000 Nuclear weapons
600000 Army
10000 Tanks
12000 Air Force
3000 Ships

INDIA

Rajnikant

06-10-2010

It is good that Ram gets some part of the land because now,
Sita is running a travel agency ,
Maruti is making cars,
Laxman might retire after the series against Australia,
Raavan is a commercial flop
and
there is peace in Lanka

ऐसी वाणी बोलिये कि झमकर झगडा होय|
गौर फरमाईएगा
ऐसी वाणी बोलिये कि झमकर झगडा होय|
पर उससे ना बोलिये जो आपसे तगडा होय |

Reality of life :
When you need advice, everybody is ready to help.
But when you need help, everybody gives you only advice.

Positive thinking is not about expecting the best to happen.
It is about accepting whatever will happen is for the best.

Funny but true :
In the past, nobody had a watch, but everyone had time .
Now, everyone has a watch, but nobody has time.

05-10-2010

Fighting with the world is easy. You either win or lose.
But fighting with a cared one is difficult; if you lose ,you lose and
if you win you still lose.

Best line said by best friends :
I can't promise to solve all your problems.
but I can promise that I will never allow you to face them alone.

The curse of lying is that it teaches you to escape situations.
The blessings of honesty is that it teaches you face situation.

Life ends when you stop dreaming.
Hope ends when you stop believing.
And love ends when you stop caring.
So dream,hope & love to make life beautiful.

If you learn to translate every event of your life into a positive one, you will stop being a prisoner of your past and become architect of the future.

04-10-2010

When the time is running good,our mistakes are taken as jokes.
But when our time is running bad, all our jokes are noticed as mistakes.

बादशाहने अपने वझिरसे कुछ ऐसा लिखनेको कहा जिसे खुशीमें पढो तो गम हो और अगर गममे पढो तो खुशी हो| वझिरने लिखा "यह वक्त भी गुझर जायेगा|

Always be good with the good but never be bad with the bad because you can wash tears with water but you can't wash blood with blood.

Your worst days are never so bad that you are beyond the reach of God's grace and your best days are never so good that you are beyond the need of God's grace.

One good action is greater than a million good intentions. People judge themselves by their intentions yet they judge others by their actions.

03-10-2010

To win a war , you should be a good warrior.
But to win a competition in a relationship, you should be a good loser.

Simplicity is ultimate beauty.
Forgiveness is ultimate strength
Politeness is ultimate argument.
& friendship is ultimate relationship.

Q :God is male or female ?
A: Male
because God likes
Pooja,
Aarti,
Archna,
Vandana,
Bhakti,
Aaradhana,
Jyoti,
Upasana.
GOD tussi great ho!

The ocean is infinite. But we get only that much water as our hand holds.
God's mercy is also infinite. But we can get only as much as our faith unfolds.

You are not responsible for what people think about you.
You are responsible for what you give them to think about you.

02-10-2010

Everybody will say "Mistake is the first step of Success"
But the real fact is :
"Correction of mistake is the first step of success"

Change is nature of life but challenge is the aim of life.
So we have to challenge the changes and not to change the challenges.

Don't choose such friend who has reached the heights, but choose that friend who can hold you when you fall from height because Loyalty is better than Royalty.

Best traffic advertisement of the year :
Picture of Lord Ganesh holding a helmet with a saying "Take care of your head. Not everyone gets a replacement like me.

Patience and silence are two powerful energies.
Patience makes you mentally strong.
Silence makes you emotionally strong.

01-10-2010

Success is like own shadow.
If you try to catch then you will never succeed.
Ignore it and walk in your own way , it will follow you.

People are not difficult.
People are different.
If we understand this we can save many relations in life

It is estimated that millions of trees are accidentally planted by squirrels who bury nuts & then forget where they hid them. Do good and forget.

Every situation has 3 dimensions.
My views
Your views
&
The truth
Success goes with the one who follows the 3rd dimension, The truth.

Relations which have to be managed are never true
&
If the relations are true, they are never required to be managed.