26-12-2011

It takes a lot of courage to forgive someone but it takes bigger courage to ask for forgiveness.

Peace of mind is a beautiful gift which only we can give to ourselves just by expecting nothing even after doing everything.

ગુજરાતીનું દિમાગ :

અમદાવાદની એક હોટેલ ભાર એક બોર્ડ પર લખેલું કે : "જો તમે જમવા નહી આવો તો તમે અને હું બન્ને ભૂખ્યા મરી જશું

We make   our own fortunes and call them fate - Benjamin Disraeli

एक आदमीने एक फकीरसे   पूछा  : "बाबा कफ़नमें जेब क्यूँ नही होती "?

फकीरने जवाब दिया : " बेटा मौत कभी रिश्वत नही लेती "|

24-12-2011

શુદ્ધિ અને વિશુદ્ધિમાં શું ફર્ક છે ?

શુદ્ધિ એટલે વર્તનની શુદ્ધિ.

વિશુદ્ધિ એટલે વલણની  શુદ્ધિ.

શુદ્ધિ એટલે બહારની શુદ્ધિ.

વિશુદ્ધિ એટલે આંતરિક શુદ્ધિ.

શુદ્ધિ એટલે આહારનો ત્યાગ. 

વિશુદ્ધિ એટલે ઈચ્છાનો ત્યાગ.

An enemy occupies more space in the brain than a well wisher in the heart.

Don't damage your brain.

Be large hearted.

Live life full of love.

Keep smiling always.

One of the things I would request you to understand about me.

Always believe in what you know about me.

Not in what you hear about me.

All women are like electric current.

If handled with care they will light up your life.

but 

if mishandled, they will give you shocks throughout your life.

લોકો માટે તમે સારા જ છો જ્યાં સુધી તમે તેમની અપેક્ષાઓ પૂરી કરો.

અને 

લોકો બધા સારા જ છે જ્યાં સુધી તમે કોઈ પાસે અપેક્ષાઓ ન રાખો

22-12-2011

Everybody knows how to build a beautiful house

but

Only few know how to live beautifully in the house.

एक बार इन्सान ने 

कोयलसे कहा : "तू इतनी काली न होती तो  कितनी  अच्छी दिखती |"

सागरसे कहा : "तेरा पानी इतना खारा न होता तो कितना अच्छा था |"

गुलाबसे कहा : " तुझमे इतने कांटे न होते तो अच्छा होता |"

तो तीनो एक साथ बोले की : "हे इन्सान  तुझमे दुसरोकी कमिया देखनेकी आदत न होती तो कितना अच्छा होता "|

Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced daily.

And

Failure is nothing more than a few errors repeated daily.

God is a comedian playing to an audience too afraid to laugh.

I want to die peacefully in my sleep like my grandfather.

Not screaming and yelling like the passengers in his car.

 

20-12-2011

Happiness has a crazy maths.

It multiplies when you divide it.

We all agree on the necessity to compromise in life.

but

We just can't agree on when it is really necessary to compromise.

Seven Funny contradictory words 

1) Clearly Misunderstood.

2) Exact Estimate

3) Small Crowd

4) Act Naturally

5) Found Missing

6) Fully Empty

& last but not the least

7) Happily Married

What is LOVE ?
It's love when a little baby girl  puts all her energy to give her daddy a head massage to relieve his head ache.

It's love when a wife makes tea for her husband & takes a sip before him to see if the tea is to his liking.

It's love when mother gives her son the best piece of cake and he passes it to his younger brother.

It's love when a friend holds your hand tightly on a slippery road after rain for your protection.

Love is actually another name of CARE.

Trust a person to that an extent that he feels guilty to cheat you.

17-12-2011

It took only one woman to bring down Lanka,

Only one woman to create Mahabharat,

Only one woman to bring down IPL 

Still people talk of women  empowerment !!!

Speak only when you feel your words are better than silence.

Speak in such a way that people 'Listen' to you.

And

Listen in such a way that people like to 'Speak' to you

Lies don't end relationships,

Usually the truth does.

Most situations in life are issues of mind over matter.

If you don't mind , it does not matter.

Keep it simple silly.

16-12-2011

First Sign of Old Age :

Wrinkles ?...... No

Medicines ? .....No

Baldness ? ......No

then what ?

When your wife starts trusting you.

Dictionary is the only place where

Death comes before Life,

Success before Work,

Divorce before Marriage,

Hate before Love

But the best part is 

Friend comes before relative.

Empty pocket teaches you million things in life

but

full pockets spoil you in a million ways.

Happiness , Freedom and Peace of Mind three things we crave for in life are attained  only by giving them.

Footwear that we wear are sold in AC showrooms but vegetables that we eat are sold on footpath.

People we love ignore us but people we ignore love us.

15-12-2011

 There are 7 thinhgs that can destroy the mankind :

1. Wealth without work
2. Pleasure without conscience
3. knowledge without character
4. Religion without sacrifice.
5. Politics without principle.
6. Science without humanity
7. Business without ethics

By Mahatma Gandhi

Most difficult is changing others which we always try and fail.

Most easy is changing ourselves which we never try at all.

Do not get upset with people or situations.

Both are powerless without your reaction.

પ્રેમે એક વાર મૃત્યુને સવાલ પૂછ્યો : " મને લોકો ચાહે છે પણ તને લોકો કેમ ધિક્કારે છે ?"

મૃત્યુએ જવાબ આપ્યો : "કેમ કે તું એક વહેમ  છે અને હું એક સત્ય છું.

Budhdha Quote : "You will not be punished for your anger. You will be punished by your anger.

14-12-2011

You may not be perfect in many things.

but

Many things can not be perfect without you.

Shakespeare Said :

"It has taken me all my life to understand  that it is not necessary to understand everything..

Never laugh at your wife's choice.You are one of them.

Never be proud of your choice. Your wife is one of them.

Keep your thoughts positive, it will become words.

Keep your words positive, it will become actions.

Keep actions positive, it will become your destiny.

Learning from a pair of walking legs:

The foot that is forward has no pride and

The foot that is behind has no shame.

Because they both know that their situation will change.

13-12-2011

Nice saying by elderly person :

Just listen to my advice 

not because I am always right 

but because I have more experience of being wrong.

Four candles we talking to each other.

1st : : "I am peace. No one needs me"

and it went off

2nd : "I am faith. Nobody believes me"

and it went off

3rd : "I am love. Nobody cares for me"

and it went off

4th : " I can light the other three because i am hope and I last forever.

Life is tough. Sometimes impossible to live. 

But never loose hope.

I wish  that your candle of hope lights all the candles in your life and keep them glowing."

A husband dialed his own phone no. from his wife's cell to see what name she chose for him like

"Jaanu"

or

"Darling"

or 

"My Love"

but he was shocked to read his name as

"ATM"

A creative man is motivated by the desire to achieve, not by the desire to beat others.

Understanding is much deeper & valuable than knowledge because there are many people who know us but very few who understand us.

12-12-2011

Silence is the best answer for all stupid questions

and

Smile is the best reaction in all critical situations.

Award winning poster showing a fish caught in a hook & the caption reads :

"Even a fish would stay out of trouble if it would have kept its mouth shut"

99% of our problems are created by 1% of our careless decisions -Swami Vivekanand

We have all the solutions to  the problems which are not ours.

We get unconditional love when we are born

and

We get unconditional respect after we die.

We just have to manage the years in between.