28-02-2012

There are no great men, only great challenges that ordinary men are forced by circumstances to face.

Life is too short to spend wallowing in sadness and self pity.

A perfect marriage  or relationship is a fantasy . When expectations are high, disappointments follow and then indifference takes over.

There are 3 essential ingredients of love.

Passion, Intimacy & Commitment

Shortfall in any of these creates imbalances.

Remember the difference between a boss & a leader.

A boss says "GO!"

A leader says "Let's GO !"

 

27-02-2012

To have a comfortable journey of life, reduce the luggage of desire.

When I got enough confidence, the stage was over.

When I was sure of winning, I lost.

When I needed people the most, they left me alone.

When I learnt to dry my tears, I found a shoulder to cry on.

When I mastered the skill of hating, somebody started loving me.

That is life.

Why India is in trouble?

Population of 121 crore of which

9 crore are retired,

40 crore in state govt., ( You know what they work for)

27 crore in central govt. ( Is there any need to tell you what they do ?)

2 crore IT professionals ( They don't work for India)

3 crore are under 5 years of age

17 crore are unemployed 

1.2 crore you can find anytime in hospital

79,99,998 people can be found in jail anytime.

Rest 2 are you & me.

You are busy with the blog,

How can I alone handle India.

We all agree on the necessity of compromise.

what we do not agree is when to compromise.

Give & take is the basis of a successful marriage.

Husband gives money, gifts, dresses etc. wife takes it.

Wife gives advices, lectures, tension etc. husband takes it.

25-02-2012

If your eyes are positive, you will like the world.

If your tongue is positive, the world will like you.

We cheat god by thousand of ways.

But

God punishes us by simply giving 

a sweet wife.

There are two kinds of people .

One who do work

&

Other who take credit.

Try to be

in the first group if you hate competition.

माँग भरनेकी सझा कुछ ईस कदर पा रहा हु

की मांग पुरी करते करते 

मा़ग मा़ग के खा रहा हुँ |

7 logics

1) Make peace with your past so it does not spoil your present.

2) What others think of you is none of your business.

3) Time heals almost everything. Give the time some time.

4) No one is a reason of your happiness except yourself

5) Don't compare your life with others. you have  no idea what their journey is all about.

6) Stop thinking too much , it is alright not to know all the answers.

7) Smile ! you do not own all the problems in the world.

Celebrity Quotes

08-02-2012

If you have the spirit of understanding everything & taking it in proper way , You will enjoy every moment of life.whether it is "pleasure" or "pressure"

Richness is not only measured by money.

You can also become rich  by your

-Habits

-Value

-Vision

-Commitments

&

- Discipline

 

Courage is what it takes to stand up & speak;

It is also what it takes to sit down & listen.

Age is a very high price to pay for maturity.

Name of the greatest inventor : Accident.

07-02-2012

Matchstick first burns itself before burning other things.

Similarly Anger is also like a matchstick, It destroys self before harming others.

Lovely thing to learn from water :

Adjust yourself in every situation & in any shape.

But

Most importantly always find out your own way to flow.

Fact of Life :

If you do right, no one remembers.

If you do wrong , no one forgets.

For any success, if there is a way , I will find it.

&

If there is no way, I will make it.

-Alexander the great.

Personality is who we are & what we do when everybody is watching.

Character is who we are & what we do when Nobody is watching.

06-2-2012

उम्र भर ग़ालिब यह  भूल करता रहा ;

धुल चहेरे पे थी , और आइना साफ करता रहा ।

Never apply terms & conditions in your relations.

Otherwise relations will turn into Contracts.

Govt. of India decides the age of army chief 

& 

in Pakistan, army decides the age of Pak. Govt.

All that we are is the result of what we have thought - Budhdha

આજનો  સુવિચાર :

આંખમાં અમી તો દુનિયા ગમી 

અને 

જીભમાં અમી તો દુનિયા નમી 

04-02-2012

Be bold, when you lose,

Be calm when you win.

Changing the face can change nothing.

But 

Facing the change can change everything.

Success is like our shadow.

Don't try to catch it.

Walk your own way, it follows you.

Kep in mind shadow follows you only when you walk towards light.

Two difficult things in life.

A- To put your idea in someone's head

B- To put someone's money in your pocket.

One who succeeds in 'A' is Teacher

One who succeeds in 'B' is Businessman.

One who succeeds in Both is Wife.

One who fails in both is Husband.

 Don't trust money.

Because

It gives bed but not sleep.

It gives books but not mind..

It gives luxuries but not happiness.

So

transfer it to my account & relax.

For better life :

1) Live to express, not to impress.

2) Don't try to make your presence noticed. Just make your absence felt.