Do not be like a scissors which cuts & divides.
But
Always be like a needle which joins & unites.
Learn from a pair of walking legs.
The foot that is forward has no pride
&
the foot which is behind has no shame
because
They both know their situation will change soon.
A desire changes nothing.
A decision changes something
but
A determination changes everything.
It takes 3 years to learn how to use tonugue.
but
it takes life time to learn when & where to use it.
Anything is valuable only in two situations.
First - before getting it
Second - after loosing it.
In between you don't realise the value
so enjoy what you have.